There are various indications which suggest that there are problems in your marriage and identifying them helps to start the process of saving your marriage.
It could be a single problem or many different problems together which are creating difficulties in your marriage and identifying them will be vital in the reconciliation process as well as in finding ways to save marriage.
Signs to Recognize Marriage Troubles The common signs which suggest that your marriage is in trouble are:

• Reduction in communication between you and your spouse.
  
• All disagreements and discussions ending in a fight.
  
• Not holding hands, no intimacy.
  
• Development of taken for granted feeling in spouse.
  
• Allowing other things and people to come in between your relationship.
  
• Stopping to do things together.
  
• Stopping the habit of doing something special for your spouse.
  

Common Issues Couples Face In the following sections we will look in detail at some of the most common issues which people have to face when there are problems in marriage.
These issues are:

1. Breakdown in communication
2. Shortage of romance
3. Taken for granted feeling
4. Other things unsettling relationship

Breakdown in Communication Breakdown in communication is considered as a very serious problem as it is of utmost importance in marriage to have a clear communication line with your spouse.
Communication helps to:

• Develop stronger bonds among partners.
  
• Clarify points which are difficult to understand for your spouse.
  
• Assists each other in appreciating the other person.
  
• Share dreams and aspiration with spouse.
  

Good communication develops if each partner respects the other.
When there is respect for spouse, willingness automatically develops to listen to what he or she wants to say.
Even when arguments occur you should not forget the respect you have for your partner as then you or your spouse will be able to steer the conversation in a manner that it turns from a heated argument into a normal relaxed conversation.
Shortage of Romance You can easily figure out that there is lack of romance in your marriage when there are no hugs or kisses, no holding of hands or lack of intimacy in your relationship.
The best possible way to correct this situation and re-ignite romance will be to start spending more time with your spouse.
Spending time together could mean anything; it could be going for a movie, taking dinner together, going for a walk or anything else which both like and it could also be something that your spouse likes very much.
Taken for Granted Feeling If you start taking your spouse for granted or it is the other way round, it is very much likely that marriage will have complications.
Such a thing happens when you start thinking that you do not have to look good as earlier, there is no need to look after your appearance or behave in similar fashion as you did earlier.
It is true that when you are in a relationship like marriage, you tend to develop a sense of relaxation, but taking everything for granted in this relationship never helps and causes conflicts to arise.
Other Things Unsettling Relationship Other things here could refer to a job you have or your children or relatives.
These people or responsibilities could become obstruction in your relationship and develop resentment in your spouse.
The situation can be improved if you take out some time from your daily schedule to spend with your spouse which could be a small chit-chat during tea or anything in similar lines.
You can also fix a time in the day which you will spend together and not allow any other work or person to come between you during that time.
A Final Note To conclude we can say that it is always possible to save your marriage and you should never think about quitting.
You need to look back at things you are doing presently and whether they are working to help save your marriage.
Continue doing them if they are improving the situation or else try out something different.
You will surely be able to save your marriage if you show persistence.