From my experiance, when you want to save your marriage, you have to figure out why it is in trouble. Many different things cause marital problems. The good news, though, is that most of these can be fixed.

The reasons for marriages in trouble vary greatly. Lies, cheating, boredom, children, jobs or job losses are just a few. If your spouse had an affair, you should really seek professional help. This isn't a secret, but when you're dealing with deep trust issues, a professional will know best how to help you.

If you opt for marriage counseling, the counselor will be able to find out the reason the cheating took place, and will also be able to tell you ways to heal from such a broken trust issue.

The secret tips aren't exactly a secret, but most people never try them. They do the opposite of what they're supposed to do, and wonder why the tips don't work.

The first tip, when you want to save your marriage, is to leave your spouse alone. Give him or her some room. If you have to, stay with a family member or close friend for a day or two. Make sure your spouse knows that you're not leaving for good, but you think the time away will be best for the both of you.

If, on the other hand, the problem in your marriage is that you don't spend enough time with each other, then you should do the opposite. Plan a weekend getaway, or simply stay home, but devote time for both of you to talk, or do something you both enjoy doing.

Even if both spouses love each other sincerely, at times they might find themselves getting more and more distant from each other and getting close to a divorce. But like me, you too can take some steps into saving your marriage and turning it into a satisfying relationship. These two 'secret' tips work wonders for marriages in trouble!