At the start of your love affair with him, you just know that the spark is all around you. Excitement rushes in as you carefully plan for your first few meetings to avoid moments of boredom and sluggishness. But as time passes by, that romantic feeling melts away. With a womans natural longing for security in a relationship, you wonder how you will keep the music playing. You ponder over things that can get him to commit to your relationship.

Let him be himself.

Like the way you treat the people close to you, get acquainted with his real character and dont try to change the way he is. A man appreciates a woman who knows how to accept and praise his real identity. In the same manner, dont be hesitant to show the spots on your face. A man puts high regard to a girlfriend whos comfortable with herself and who doesnt feel awkward with his presence.

Communicate your ideas.

Share the ideas you have in mind. Dont be scared to share your ideas, from the silliest joke you can think of to the highly philosophical aspects of war. Be bold enough to say what you think, from your corniest one-liners to your deepest sentiments about war. As how youd want him to, listen with all ears to his stories. Dont forget that attachment springs from trust and trust springs from communication.

Share your interests.

Do stuffs youre crazy about together. If youre both food freaks, explore various cuisines available around. Learn to give and take, like the way you demonstrate little acts of kindness to your friend. If hes into anime, try to recognize the powers of amazing ninjas in Naruto. Expand your own sphere.

Prove to him hes well-loved.

Do say those three short words every now and then and mean it. Scribble your sonnets and notes, get him some cake, organize his birthday bash and sing him songs. If you find these already centuries-old, come up with creative ways with the modern gadgets and updated technology.

Touch and be touched.

To get him to commit to your relationship, touch him and let him touch you. You dont have sleep with him through the night. Your warm embrace and loving smacks are already sweet reminders of your affection. If youre in the mood for teasing him, toy with his ears, tickle his armpit, fondle his toes with yours under the table. There can be a lot of ways to be playful or to manifest the art of physical seduction.

Acquaint him with your loved ones.

Hell definitely feel proud if you ask him to join a family reunion or a gathering with your long lost friends. Dont shut him up when he wants to speak or dont just let him watch you and your buddies prepare for a certain big event. Socialization with new people gives him a sense of belongingness. What makes it more fulfilling for him is the fact that hes interacting with the people in your circle.

Plan your future.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery is famous for the saying, love does not only consist in gazing at each other but also in looking together in the same direction. This is very crucial as it may call for major decisions in your career and aspirations. Take things as they flow. Dont hurry. Love isnt about reaching the finish line first.

Indeed, it is a serious challenge to get him to commit to you and your relationship. It isnt easy, the road has plenty of humps. But a woman who is truly in love will do her best in keeping the song from fading too fast. And a man who doesnt fail to appreciate this may even sing forever with her.