Why Men Cheat - Understand and Keep it From Happening to You
Are you afraid your guy might end up cheating on you and you want to keep it from happening? Has he already cheated on you, leaving you devastated and heartbroken? Do you still love him, but you don't know if you'll ever be able to trust him? This can be a most trying time for any couple and getting the relationship back on course can be difficult.
Read this article to understand why he did it and what you can do to keep it from happening again.
If you've only been with the guy for a very short amount of time and he's cheated on you, realize that you might have a problem guy on your hands.
Either he's too immature to get into a relationship or he's a chronic cheater.
Dump him and find a real man.
If your real man has grown unhappy in your relationship and he slipped up, you need to understand why he's unhappy.
Sex is usually a part of it.
If you've let you sex life slide to the point where it's virtually non existent, you need to look at yourself and figure out why this aspect of your relationship isn't interesting to you.
But in addition to sex, there is usually a more profound basis for his unhappiness.
To a large extent it will all revert back to how you're treating him.
Many women are quick to forget about the man they fell in love with and they are suddenly on his back for virtually everything.
When a man starts to feel he no longer has any control in his life; when he feels as though everything he says and does is wrong; when he is ridiculed and diminished at every turn, he can come to resent his relationship with you and seek validation outside the relationship.
He needs to feel like a man, not just in his pants, but in his head and heart as well.
If you're constantly reminding him of the failure he is, you're giving his ego a thorough bashing.
Then when he encounters the woman who finds him amusing, who is interested in what he has to say, who makes him feel smart, wanted and virile, where do you think he's going to turn? You as you bash him again or her as she pats his back and compliments him? Truly love him and keep him from cheating.
Read this article to understand why he did it and what you can do to keep it from happening again.
If you've only been with the guy for a very short amount of time and he's cheated on you, realize that you might have a problem guy on your hands.
Either he's too immature to get into a relationship or he's a chronic cheater.
Dump him and find a real man.
If your real man has grown unhappy in your relationship and he slipped up, you need to understand why he's unhappy.
Sex is usually a part of it.
If you've let you sex life slide to the point where it's virtually non existent, you need to look at yourself and figure out why this aspect of your relationship isn't interesting to you.
But in addition to sex, there is usually a more profound basis for his unhappiness.
To a large extent it will all revert back to how you're treating him.
Many women are quick to forget about the man they fell in love with and they are suddenly on his back for virtually everything.
When a man starts to feel he no longer has any control in his life; when he feels as though everything he says and does is wrong; when he is ridiculed and diminished at every turn, he can come to resent his relationship with you and seek validation outside the relationship.
He needs to feel like a man, not just in his pants, but in his head and heart as well.
If you're constantly reminding him of the failure he is, you're giving his ego a thorough bashing.
Then when he encounters the woman who finds him amusing, who is interested in what he has to say, who makes him feel smart, wanted and virile, where do you think he's going to turn? You as you bash him again or her as she pats his back and compliments him? Truly love him and keep him from cheating.