It's sad when you happen to like a woman, but she only seems to like you as a friend.
It doesn't even seem to matter if you're being the perfect gentleman to her -- she simply doesn't seem interested in taking things to the next level with you.
What can you do in this situation? First of all, you'll have to realize that being "too nice" to a woman will actually work against you if you want to get into a relationship with her.
Being a gentleman is a good thing, but it will only get you so far.
The more you be nice to her, the more she'll see you as a friend.
It's quite simple, really -- you're making her feel the exact same way her friends do, so she'll very naturally see you as just a friend.
There's no real reason for her to see you otherwise, unless you show her something different -- and attractive.
So how do you make her see you as more than just a friend? The first thing is obvious -- stop acting too nice! You may notice that women seem to be more attracted to bad boys than nice guys.
But these men aren't really bad -- they simply have a personality that's the exact opposite of "nice.
" And it's precisely this exciting, dynamic, unpredictable personality that makes women want to spend time with these men.
The good news is that it's possible to tweak your personality from a "too nice, too wussy" one to a more "wild card" one.
You'll first need to know exactly what kind of personalities women like in men.
First, you'll need to be more confident.
It's no joke when they say that confident men are more attractive to women than men with just looks and money.
Be someone who can present himself to the world unapologetically, and women will immediately notice you.
Second, be independent.
Confidence and independence go hand-in-hand, and the more independent you get, the more confident you'll feel as well.
So go through the motions of advancing your career, becoming financially secure, and socially active.
Third, take it easy and have a sense of humor.
Women like being around a funny guy, especially if he couples his sense of humor with a bit of playful overconfidence.
When you find that you can joke around, tease, and flirt with women without any reservations, women will definitely want to know you better.
Don't be discouraged when she only wants to be friends with you -- it could simply be that she can't feel any chemistry with you.
Besides, with your new confident, independent, easygoing personality, you'll be meeting new women soon enough.
It doesn't even seem to matter if you're being the perfect gentleman to her -- she simply doesn't seem interested in taking things to the next level with you.
What can you do in this situation? First of all, you'll have to realize that being "too nice" to a woman will actually work against you if you want to get into a relationship with her.
Being a gentleman is a good thing, but it will only get you so far.
The more you be nice to her, the more she'll see you as a friend.
It's quite simple, really -- you're making her feel the exact same way her friends do, so she'll very naturally see you as just a friend.
There's no real reason for her to see you otherwise, unless you show her something different -- and attractive.
So how do you make her see you as more than just a friend? The first thing is obvious -- stop acting too nice! You may notice that women seem to be more attracted to bad boys than nice guys.
But these men aren't really bad -- they simply have a personality that's the exact opposite of "nice.
" And it's precisely this exciting, dynamic, unpredictable personality that makes women want to spend time with these men.
The good news is that it's possible to tweak your personality from a "too nice, too wussy" one to a more "wild card" one.
You'll first need to know exactly what kind of personalities women like in men.
First, you'll need to be more confident.
It's no joke when they say that confident men are more attractive to women than men with just looks and money.
Be someone who can present himself to the world unapologetically, and women will immediately notice you.
Second, be independent.
Confidence and independence go hand-in-hand, and the more independent you get, the more confident you'll feel as well.
So go through the motions of advancing your career, becoming financially secure, and socially active.
Third, take it easy and have a sense of humor.
Women like being around a funny guy, especially if he couples his sense of humor with a bit of playful overconfidence.
When you find that you can joke around, tease, and flirt with women without any reservations, women will definitely want to know you better.
Don't be discouraged when she only wants to be friends with you -- it could simply be that she can't feel any chemistry with you.
Besides, with your new confident, independent, easygoing personality, you'll be meeting new women soon enough.