How to Get Him to Care for You? 7 Things You Must Do If You Want Your Dream Man to Care for You
Your boyfriend claims he loves you but you notice that he is like a free bird and maybe due to his age or due to his immaturity he does not show his concern or care for you. Well, if this is your problem then you will have to take matters in your hand and set things right. You have impress upon him that you need love and care in equal measure.
Tell him what you want
You can have a frank discussion with him and evaluate the relationship. Tell him you do appreciate his love but are disturbed by the fact that he does not show his care and concern. Tell him that the last thing you want is a fair weather relationship. If he does get the message he will improve.
Ignore his demands
After the first attempt if he still shows no signs of improvement, then you will have to work even harder. Start ignoring his requests and demands and do it without a sense of guilt. When questioned tell him that you don't care as much.
Stop caring for him
The fact that he does not care for you indicates that he has begun to take you for granted. He probably thinks that you are so much in love that you will overlook his carefree attitude. To shock him stop taking care of him and his feelings. If he does not like you mixing with the boys then do it deliberately.
Change your status
You can also change your status on social media sites from engaged to single. If he notices it and asks you for an explanation tell him that he first has to behave like a proper boyfriend before you begin to consider him as one.
Put him on notice
Even as you are trying to reform him put him on notice. Tell him what you like about him and what changes you want in him. If he wants to date you then he should show a lot more concern towards you. Begin taking interest in other guys that you find are more likely to give you attention.
Cancel dates without giving him a reason
To further push your point you will have to begin canceling dates without giving him any good reason. He will now get the message loud and clear. When you do cancel the date, make sure that you don't stay at home but enjoy the evening out with friends and family. This news will definitely reach him.
Carrot and stick approach
If he really likes you he will slowly begin to change and show some care and concern. When he does that appreciate it and reward him suitably. Once he realizes that keeping the relationship going is also his responsibility he will start caring for you.
Tell him what you want
You can have a frank discussion with him and evaluate the relationship. Tell him you do appreciate his love but are disturbed by the fact that he does not show his care and concern. Tell him that the last thing you want is a fair weather relationship. If he does get the message he will improve.
Ignore his demands
After the first attempt if he still shows no signs of improvement, then you will have to work even harder. Start ignoring his requests and demands and do it without a sense of guilt. When questioned tell him that you don't care as much.
Stop caring for him
The fact that he does not care for you indicates that he has begun to take you for granted. He probably thinks that you are so much in love that you will overlook his carefree attitude. To shock him stop taking care of him and his feelings. If he does not like you mixing with the boys then do it deliberately.
Change your status
You can also change your status on social media sites from engaged to single. If he notices it and asks you for an explanation tell him that he first has to behave like a proper boyfriend before you begin to consider him as one.
Put him on notice
Even as you are trying to reform him put him on notice. Tell him what you like about him and what changes you want in him. If he wants to date you then he should show a lot more concern towards you. Begin taking interest in other guys that you find are more likely to give you attention.
Cancel dates without giving him a reason
To further push your point you will have to begin canceling dates without giving him any good reason. He will now get the message loud and clear. When you do cancel the date, make sure that you don't stay at home but enjoy the evening out with friends and family. This news will definitely reach him.
Carrot and stick approach
If he really likes you he will slowly begin to change and show some care and concern. When he does that appreciate it and reward him suitably. Once he realizes that keeping the relationship going is also his responsibility he will start caring for you.