Do you have a few friends who are truly average looking, yet their guys are willing to go to the ends of the earth for them? Would you love to have a guy like you so much that he'd do virtually anything for you? Has your luck with men been rather dismal and you can barely get him to open the car door for you, never mind do anything more? Sometimes we tend to criticize the man for not being romantic or giving enough when we don't get what we want.
But in reality, it is sometimes us women who just don't attract or even deserve that kind of attention from a guy.
So let's look at what does get a guy up and at attention.
Looking Great It always helps to look your best.
Few guys go for the girl who dresses in rags and barely takes the time to put herself together.
This isn't just a question of physical attractiveness.
It can make you appear neglectful and uncaring to just let yourself go.
Take a minute to ensure that the look you put together gives off the right message.
Do you look too trampy? Too reserved? Too outdated? Self-Esteem Even with the perfect look, some women are going out there feeling down about themselves.
They stare at their feet, refuse to look around them and give people the impression they just don't want to be bothered.
Hold your head up and make eye contact with those around you.
To show your willingness to meet new people, you might even want to smile to show you're friendly and approachable.
Aura of Mystery Few guys like a girl who is like an open book.
Keep a little bit of that mystery alive by not telling him absolutely everything there is to know about you.
You have plenty of time to share that later and giving him too many details now can be more tedious than interesting.
Keep it interesting and he'll give you his world.