When you know the sparks gone out, it's important to do something fast.
The spark didn't just go out, problems and resentments or lack of energy in the relationship have dampened it over time.
You need to revitalize the relationship to relight that fire you both experienced at the beginning of the relationship.
The first thing you need to do is spend some time talking about how you're both feeling.
Tell your spouse that you feel you're growing apart and say that you're committed to changing that.
It's important to really listen, put aside what you think you know about how they're feeling, really listen, there might be things you didn't know about how they're feeling about the marriage.
If you've been spending time involved with other people, hobbies and work.
Decide how and when you can spend more quality time together.
The reason you were so in love in the beginning was because you spent time getting to know each other and loved the feeling of being together most of the time.
You need to capture that quality of interaction again.
You need at least once or twice a week to prioritize each other and your marriage.
What did you used to do that you're not doing now...
did you see movies together, go for meals, spend cozy times watching films at home.
Share with each other the things you loved to do that you don't do now.
If you want to relight the fire before it's too late, you must do something now! Don't put it off, the time to save your marriage is now.
When you make your marriage the focus of your positive attention and commit to save it, it really is possible to turn around a marriage where the fire has gone or is going out.
You can create the feelings you had so they're even stronger with the will and know how.