Creative Ways to Propose to Your Girlfriend
- Capturing her heart and making her dreams come true is a tall order. Expectations are high, and there's pressure to create an unforgettable moment because you'll celebrate this story over and over again.
The answer is to think about your soulmate's personality. What are the special memories you've created and what makes her the woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with? Use those moments as a foundation for your proposal and you're on your way.
For example, if she's a private person, don't propose in front of her future mother-in-law; instead, think of more intimate settings, such as at home or a bed & breakfast. On the other hand, if she's outgoing, then a grandiose proposal might be in order, such as a dinner cruise or gala museum event. - When proposing, be passionate. Tell her why life is better with her by your side.ring on glass hearts image by Brett Mulcahy from Fotolia.com
Meet your girlfriend for drinks at a fancy hotel bar, says theKnot.com. "When it's time to go, casually mention that you've already reserved a room for the night. When you open the hotel room door, have roses, candles and champagne all set up---everything for a perfect surprise proposal."
After a delicious dinner and before the Broadway show you've both been looking forward to, slip the ring box into her coat pocket. Then ask her to check her pockets for something.
Ready for a pet? Visit a pet store or local animal shelter, and while she's cooing over the dogs or cats, tie the ring loosely around its collar. Or have your proposal printed on dog tags and ask her to attach it to the collar. - It's traditional to bend down on one knee before you ask, "Will you marry me?"happy couple image by Vasiliy Koval from Fotolia.com
Is she picking you up at the airport? If she enjoys public displays of affection, you might want to ask strangers for help, like this man did. On YouTube.com (Airport Wedding Proposal; The best marriage proposal ever) an airline pilot asks passengers to give his girlfriend a single red rose. (He showed them her photo beforehand so they'll recognize her.) After she received an armful of flowers and well wishes, he got down on bended knee. And she said yes! - Find that special setting where you both enjoy spending time together.lovers image by Aleksander from Fotolia.com
Engrave the words, Will You Marry Me? on river rocks. Invite her on a hike to a special spot. Line them up on a footpath or rest them atop the picnic basket, complete with her favorite foods. She'll treasure the rocks as keepsakes. Another idea is to go to the beach, any time of the year, to "search for seaglass." Hide the ring under a unique seashell or driftwood for her discovery. - Show her why good things come in little packages!christmas image by Horticulture from Fotolia.com
According to Propose.ie, "The three most popular days of the year to get engaged are Valentine's Day, Christmas and New Year's."
When you're picking out a Christmas tree, place the ring on a tree branch and call her over, telling her you've found the perfect tree. Or hang a miniature stocking on the tree with the ring inside. When all the presents are unwrapped, mention the new ornament and tell her it's her last gift.
If you celebrate Hanukkah, put the engagement ring around the first candle on the menorah and wait for her to notice.
Kick off the holiday season, during Thanksgiving. If she would love for the family to witness the moment, then ask to say a prayer before you eat. Get down on one knee, in front of the family and turkey and propose (before the food gets cold!) You can let the family in on the secret or surprise everyone.
Another idea is to create a basket for Easter with things she loves. Include a paperback from her favorite author, music or a movie DVD, chocolate, a gift card to dinner or a clothing store... Most importantly, stuff the ring inside a plastic egg. - Ask her to marry you while you're biking, walking or jogging, if that's her favorite thing to do.park image by Brett Bouwer from Fotolia.com
Most women enjoy being indulged by their man. Set up a special day for her to get a massage and buy a new outfit, all prepaid. Then ask her to meet you at her favorite park, coffee house or city sculpture. Though this unusual day might tip her off to your plan, the anticipation will be thrilling. - Tuck the ring box onto the plate after you order room service!dinner tray image by Xavier MARCHANT from Fotolia.com
Whisk her away for surprise weekend, but don't tell her where you're headed, even as you travel. Take all the stress away by packing her suitcase, including a new outfit and lingerie. Once you've arrived, order room service and slip the ring box onto her dessert plate. Or place it on her pillow, tuck it into her bag or the refrigerator in the room.