It can be a very distressing time for you to cope with if you have just started to suspect that your spouse is cheating on you. It hurts and torments to feel you have been deceived by the one person whom you have trusted the most. There are several ways to catch your partner red handed. Relying on cheating spouse software for computers or for mobiles is one of the several ways to find out if your spouse if faithful or not. However, it is most important to observe signs to learn whether you are actually being cheated.

A sudden need for privacy is the biggest sign of a cheating spouse. it is particularly alarming if they are hiding their cell phones, bills, receipts or computer/laptop from you. In some cases where on a usual basis email passwords are shared, a cheating spouse may even change those to keep things secret. Such actions will make it impossible for you ascertain what they are doing, whom they are meeting or dating and even how they feel about you. Feelings of hurt and neglect may surround you and make you feel inadequate. To find out and establish your doubts or suspicions you can choose to use a variety of cheating spouse software.

Mobile phones: if you can manage to get your hands on your partners mobile phone, look for frequently called numbers and make note of these. Also look their message and email inbox on the phone to search for any romantic or otherwise suspicious messages. You can find out who these numbers belong to by using reverse cell phone lookup. This facility also provides you personal information such as addresses apart from the name of the person. There is also a software using which you can view the contact list, text messages and the calls on your spouses cell phone. You can install this on your phone or computer and can be used on any Bluetooth enabled phone. A feature in this software also allows you to listen in to the conversations on the mobile secretly without letting your spouse find out about this.

Computer or laptop: there are several cheating spouse software which may be installed on the system your spouse regularly uses. They enable you to keep a log of the websites they visit, any emails they receive or send and any log chats conducted on programs as windows live messenger or even yahoo! Messenger or Gtalk. The software runs in the background and there is no way for your spouse to detect its presence. These are available at several software stores and can also be bought online through various sites.