Stop Breaking Up With the One You Love
This might well be the most painful situation one can go through, especially if you have been together for a long time.
You shared your hopes, your dreams, your most intimate thoughts and your most beautiful moments, and you wanted to do so for the rest of your lives...
And now it's all fallen apart, and you feel pain and extreme sadness over the loss of that special one in your life.
Getting over such a heartbreaking experience is very, very difficult.
So, if you reach the point of breaking up, you would be willing to do just about anything to save your relationship.
You would find a way, any way, just to make things go back to the way they used to be, or at least try to.
Before your relationship even reaches this point, you must try to avoid ending it in the first place.
We all know that the perfect relationship does not exist in this world.
But if you want to be able to make any relationship work, you both have to put effort into it.
You and your partner both should exert the same amount of effort in making it work.
One thing to keep in mind is, that you cannot force anyone into behaving in a certain way, so that you will feel better.
You cannot make your happiness depend upon what your partner says or does.
If you avoid trying to do so, you'll experience a much better, more comfortable and loving relationship.
Anyone who feels restricted or confined, will try to get away! It is very important that the both of you are on the same page here, that both of you have the same expectations of this relationship.
So, from the very start, you and your partner should tell each other and be open about what you both want and expect from the relationship without demanding anything from each other.
Therefore, the most important thing in a relationship is of course communication.
As the famous adage says: "Communication is the key to a successful relationship" - this is in fact very, very true.
If you don't communicate, your relationship is doomed to fail.
Why? Because when you and your partner do not talk, you cannot express how you truly feel.
All too often this results in unspoken irritations, pent up anger, hurt, disappointment and misunderstandings.
And before you know it, your relationship is in trouble, and you could find yourself in just the situation you want to avoid: a painful breakup.
On the other hand, if you communicate with your partner constantly, you help resolve any issues you both might harbor with each other.
It also helps building confidence that you can tell each other anything, however embarrassing, and this build a solid foundation between the two of you.
It also helps you to know and understand each other better and better over time.
So, being able to communicate well with your partner would mean lesser conflicts, greater ease and trust, more fun and happiness, and a joyous and peaceful relationship, without fear of growing apart and breaking up eventually.