Sick and tired of being alone? Are you having second thoughts about the breakup and are missing your ex who is miles away? While we know that absence makes the heart fonder you should take definite steps to get your ex back! Here are some tips that will make your ex fly back to you in no time at all! Take a chance Don't sit around wondering if your ex is missing you too.
If you are being plagued by memories of the wonderful times you had together, it is more than possible that your ex too is having similar pangs for you.
Take a chance and get in touch with her.
You will know at once if she has any feelings for you by the way she answers your call.
Both of you have changed Accept the fact that both of you have changed.
There has been a lot of water under the bridge and time has healed the wounds.
This gives you both a better chance of finding happiness again.
With this positive attitude, your chances of getting your ex back even if they are miles away are greater.
Make sure that the core reason does not exist The main reason or the root cause of the breakup should be completely eliminated.
Whatever the reason, just make sure that it does not exist anymore.
This will make you more comfortable and confident of approaching your ex again.
Work on yourself and try to be the person your ex wanted you to be.
Accept responsibility The best way to get your ex back to you is to show them that you are ready to accept responsibility for all the problems that led to the breakup.
This obviously means that you will have to swallow your pride and make things right.
Even though your ex could be largely to blame, the fact that you are willing to take steps to make things work this time, will touch your ex's heart and bring them home to you.
Don't force your ex into reconciling with you If your ex feels that you are trying to emotionally blackmail them into returning to you, then they won't want to come back to you.
Instead, show your ex that you are willing to respect their decision - no matter what it is - and will not try to force them to come back.
This attitude will prove that you have matured and are a better person! Keep in touch with your ex Even while you are doing your best to give your ex the time they need to get over the breakup, keep in touch.
Talk things over on the phone and let your ex know that you still consider them your friend.
Keep the communication between you strong and consistent.
This way, your ex will gradually get used to you again.
Let your ex know that you are thinking of him/her Though you have parted ways you can always let your ex know that you still think of him/her.
Send your ex friendly, nice emails or letters that are noncommittal but newsy.
Never bring up the sordid past but keep your tone warm and friendly.