In view of this reconstruction must go through four phases, as psychologists have determined.
Here are the four phases
One other thing that you must realize is that serious changes in your relationship will not happen overnight.
Most arguments happen over the lack of money or having a cheating partner.
So it's important to make sure you are striving to live a better life.
If everything happened because they do not spend too much together (that quality time spent together as husband and wife), bring back to the fore the common interests, hobbies, activities that involve both of you.
Re-ignition sense of pleasure to be around each other! It is also possible that immediately after learning news of infidelity, you think you'll never be able to forgive him or to make its place in the soul of a snake whose message is that if we forgive, he or she will feel entitled his step again and again...
forever.
Is it betrayal is like a drug - when I've got a taste, you're tempted to repeat the mistake forever? However, if we continue to accuse him and punish him every day, in a late, it will sour and will leave.
Positive thinking is the most effective way to forgive.
We can get around this time if we consider the good of our relationship, if you're honest with ourselves and recognize that we have played a role, no matter how insignificant it is, in the whole affair.
Awareness so we can straighten things we can do more of what you new to the relationship.
So when we would bring life into the same point a decision would be any easier to take, we will be reconciled in May we did all of what was holding us like that relationship to continue.
It is important to maintain that respect and self esteem to be stronger, more present in the context of our personal life and couple.
Regain confidence is a step in slow motion.
It is natural to be jealous of a period / six, to follow every move of the partner; we thank not the answer "I went to a beer with friends after work, that's why I delayed a little.
" Even though he swore to heaven and the earth that is good and that will not ironing whole life, it will be pretty hard to believe it a good time.
That's because not regain the trust of a sudden.
It is useful to show him how we are complacent when coming home at the time given, or when we phone calls during the day.
Only when together you'll feel better and you get rid of feelings of guilt, you can say honestly that the relationship going again, the normal path.
Until then it is a struggle between memory and the betrayal of desire to have new confidence that all is well and you have a future together! They say once you have built something and you've destroyed, even if you rebuild, that will not be as before.
Up to us and the next that the partner, if there was a future together.
It is preferable to hold on we need things to be as before.
Reconstruction of a relationship and regain confidence may prove to be a difficult path, heavily that if you choose to start is good to us armed with patience, wisdom, honesty, love of self and each other! It is a short journey for some, longer for others.
It is important to know that we can choose to not be alone on this road, as there are people like me, like you can come to your aid.
Here are the four phases
- Understand why you were wrong in the situation
- Make some changes so you can rekindle the relationship
- Learn to forgive and forget
- Regain confidence in each other
One other thing that you must realize is that serious changes in your relationship will not happen overnight.
Most arguments happen over the lack of money or having a cheating partner.
So it's important to make sure you are striving to live a better life.
If everything happened because they do not spend too much together (that quality time spent together as husband and wife), bring back to the fore the common interests, hobbies, activities that involve both of you.
Re-ignition sense of pleasure to be around each other! It is also possible that immediately after learning news of infidelity, you think you'll never be able to forgive him or to make its place in the soul of a snake whose message is that if we forgive, he or she will feel entitled his step again and again...
forever.
Is it betrayal is like a drug - when I've got a taste, you're tempted to repeat the mistake forever? However, if we continue to accuse him and punish him every day, in a late, it will sour and will leave.
Positive thinking is the most effective way to forgive.
We can get around this time if we consider the good of our relationship, if you're honest with ourselves and recognize that we have played a role, no matter how insignificant it is, in the whole affair.
Awareness so we can straighten things we can do more of what you new to the relationship.
So when we would bring life into the same point a decision would be any easier to take, we will be reconciled in May we did all of what was holding us like that relationship to continue.
It is important to maintain that respect and self esteem to be stronger, more present in the context of our personal life and couple.
Regain confidence is a step in slow motion.
It is natural to be jealous of a period / six, to follow every move of the partner; we thank not the answer "I went to a beer with friends after work, that's why I delayed a little.
" Even though he swore to heaven and the earth that is good and that will not ironing whole life, it will be pretty hard to believe it a good time.
That's because not regain the trust of a sudden.
It is useful to show him how we are complacent when coming home at the time given, or when we phone calls during the day.
Only when together you'll feel better and you get rid of feelings of guilt, you can say honestly that the relationship going again, the normal path.
Until then it is a struggle between memory and the betrayal of desire to have new confidence that all is well and you have a future together! They say once you have built something and you've destroyed, even if you rebuild, that will not be as before.
Up to us and the next that the partner, if there was a future together.
It is preferable to hold on we need things to be as before.
Reconstruction of a relationship and regain confidence may prove to be a difficult path, heavily that if you choose to start is good to us armed with patience, wisdom, honesty, love of self and each other! It is a short journey for some, longer for others.
It is important to know that we can choose to not be alone on this road, as there are people like me, like you can come to your aid.