How to Make Your Ex Speak to You Again - 3 Things Which Will Make Your Ex Contact You Again!
It's impossible to get your ex back when they are not even talking to you.
That's quite obvious.
It's also difficult to manage when they are completely ignoring you, and you feel utterly rejected and hurt.
But, keep your chin held high, and smile, because you are about to find out the 3 sneaky little tricks which will make your ex contact you again! Read on to find out how to make your ex speak to you again..
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Step #1: Shut up...
for your own good! It may sound really rude, but you really need to do this! If you keep on calling your ex and bothering him/her, you are literally shoving your foot in your mouth, because you will appear to be desperate and too clingy! That's not what you want here, so do yourself this favor, just for once, and shut up.
It will be hard, there's no doubt there, but unless you cut off all contact, your ex will NEVER speak to you again, you hear me?! This is because your ex will always take you for granted, and will think you are too easy, so just cut the contact for now.
Ok, whew, now that that's over, let's move on to the nicer aspects of this technique, shall we? Step #2: Become the human accomplisher Remember our little talk about how chasing your ex around can make them think you are desperate..
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well there's another tiny issue here: if you aren't doing anything, your ex won't want you back either.
So while you are giving your ex some space, you can work on becoming the "human accomplisher".
What this is, is basically someone who goes out and has a life purpose and meaning, which they try to fulfill.
This means that you won't just sit at home and cry and become depressed, but rather, you will go out and do the most interesting things possible, as if you were to die tomorrow.
This in turn will give you something to talk about when your ex contacts you again.
The contact phase...
yay! After you have ignored your ex for a while, they will literally call you back, because they won't be able to stand the idea of you not talking to them.
They will find it lonely...
and will want to know what's going on with you.
Heck, they may even think you are dead, and will call to check, but boy, will they be in for a surprise when you pick up and are full of life and have tons to talk about! This in turn will make your ex want to talk to you, BUT, if you want your ex to talk to you continuously, you will have to avoid telling them everything that is going on in your life, and will have to play hard to get, to keep their interest up!
That's quite obvious.
It's also difficult to manage when they are completely ignoring you, and you feel utterly rejected and hurt.
But, keep your chin held high, and smile, because you are about to find out the 3 sneaky little tricks which will make your ex contact you again! Read on to find out how to make your ex speak to you again..
..
Step #1: Shut up...
for your own good! It may sound really rude, but you really need to do this! If you keep on calling your ex and bothering him/her, you are literally shoving your foot in your mouth, because you will appear to be desperate and too clingy! That's not what you want here, so do yourself this favor, just for once, and shut up.
It will be hard, there's no doubt there, but unless you cut off all contact, your ex will NEVER speak to you again, you hear me?! This is because your ex will always take you for granted, and will think you are too easy, so just cut the contact for now.
Ok, whew, now that that's over, let's move on to the nicer aspects of this technique, shall we? Step #2: Become the human accomplisher Remember our little talk about how chasing your ex around can make them think you are desperate..
..
well there's another tiny issue here: if you aren't doing anything, your ex won't want you back either.
So while you are giving your ex some space, you can work on becoming the "human accomplisher".
What this is, is basically someone who goes out and has a life purpose and meaning, which they try to fulfill.
This means that you won't just sit at home and cry and become depressed, but rather, you will go out and do the most interesting things possible, as if you were to die tomorrow.
This in turn will give you something to talk about when your ex contacts you again.
The contact phase...
yay! After you have ignored your ex for a while, they will literally call you back, because they won't be able to stand the idea of you not talking to them.
They will find it lonely...
and will want to know what's going on with you.
Heck, they may even think you are dead, and will call to check, but boy, will they be in for a surprise when you pick up and are full of life and have tons to talk about! This in turn will make your ex want to talk to you, BUT, if you want your ex to talk to you continuously, you will have to avoid telling them everything that is going on in your life, and will have to play hard to get, to keep their interest up!