You have almost reached breaking point.
Your nerves are absolutely shot! For days now, you have been trying everything to get to talk to your ex, but nothing is working.
You hardly eat, you have a lot of trouble getting to sleep - all that is on your mind is how to get your ex back.
Listen, do yourself a huge favor, and try reverse psychology.
This is simply a fancy term for doing things in exactly the opposite way to what is expected of you.
If you are normally a placid person, then, if you fly off the handle, then everyone will sit up and take notice.
Do you get the picture? Good! This is what you must do now to try and get your ex back.
Reverse psychology is really a great, easy way to get a relationship back on track again.
Is your ex expecting you to scream and demand that he/she take you back again? Then do just the opposite - send him/her a very polite, calm text message saying that you respect his/her wish to end the relationship, and understand why he/she doesn't want to see you right now.
Also say that you won't bother your ex anymore, and are really very sorry for hurting him/her and all the anger that you caused as well.
You probably won't hear from your ex immediately after, but this will just be because your ex is stunned by your reaction.
Your ex wasn't expecting such polite, calm behavior from you, and will need some time to come to term with this.
To add to this, and to baffle your ex even more, say only nice things to your friends about your ex.
Okay, so you really want to say what an idiot your ex is, and lay all the blame for the break up entirely on your ex, but DON'T do it.
Your friends will also be amazed at your reaction - they expected something VERY different from you as well.
You are going to be the topic of conversation between your friends and your ex for a couple of days.
Of course your ex is not going to believe what they say - he/she is going to be determined to get to the bottom of all of this, and will waste no time in making contact with you, to satisfy his/her curiosity.
Your nerves are absolutely shot! For days now, you have been trying everything to get to talk to your ex, but nothing is working.
You hardly eat, you have a lot of trouble getting to sleep - all that is on your mind is how to get your ex back.
Listen, do yourself a huge favor, and try reverse psychology.
This is simply a fancy term for doing things in exactly the opposite way to what is expected of you.
If you are normally a placid person, then, if you fly off the handle, then everyone will sit up and take notice.
Do you get the picture? Good! This is what you must do now to try and get your ex back.
Reverse psychology is really a great, easy way to get a relationship back on track again.
Is your ex expecting you to scream and demand that he/she take you back again? Then do just the opposite - send him/her a very polite, calm text message saying that you respect his/her wish to end the relationship, and understand why he/she doesn't want to see you right now.
Also say that you won't bother your ex anymore, and are really very sorry for hurting him/her and all the anger that you caused as well.
You probably won't hear from your ex immediately after, but this will just be because your ex is stunned by your reaction.
Your ex wasn't expecting such polite, calm behavior from you, and will need some time to come to term with this.
To add to this, and to baffle your ex even more, say only nice things to your friends about your ex.
Okay, so you really want to say what an idiot your ex is, and lay all the blame for the break up entirely on your ex, but DON'T do it.
Your friends will also be amazed at your reaction - they expected something VERY different from you as well.
You are going to be the topic of conversation between your friends and your ex for a couple of days.
Of course your ex is not going to believe what they say - he/she is going to be determined to get to the bottom of all of this, and will waste no time in making contact with you, to satisfy his/her curiosity.