There are a lot of dumb things we do that can cause the love of our lives to break up with us.
Chances are, you're sitting there already in the midst of a breakup wondering what went wrong so that you can figure out how to fix it! Well, here are four of the top culprits that are most often responsible for a relationship's untimely end.
1) Lack of faithfulness.
Cheating leaves an ugly scar on a relationship that can sometimes never quite heal.
Few things devastate somebody like being cheated on, and while a person's reaction to finding out about it may vary among individuals the emotional hurt is universal.
Recovering from a breakup caused by cheating can be difficult, but it does happen...
more than you may think, actually.
2) Taking too tight a hold on the reins of the relationship.
More than just being bossy, commandeering your partner's life leaves him or her feeling trapped and constricted.
Some people see their own tendencies to do this and laugh it off like "being a control freak" is no big deal.
Truth is, it IS a big deal.
The claustrophobic feelings this induces can send a person into "panic mode" and cause them to just break and run from the source of the constriction: you.
3) Not supporting or providing for your partner's needs.
Both men and women each have their own particular needs from a relationship and although every person is unique you'll find that each gender tends to universally share some specific requirements to be happy.
Generally men need to feel needed and admired, and women need to feel desirable and valued.
A man without his woman's respect is going to feel as bad as a woman who doesn't feel like her man is interested in her or appreciates her.
Neither case usually results in the relationship lasting too long.
Whatever your situation, whatever it was that made your relationship go south and eventually break apart, it is still possible to fix the problems and redeem yourself.
Even if none of the above sound familiar, like they may have had some say in why your partner broke up with you, if you really think and discover what it was that ailed your relationship you can indeed bring it back together.
Chances are, you're sitting there already in the midst of a breakup wondering what went wrong so that you can figure out how to fix it! Well, here are four of the top culprits that are most often responsible for a relationship's untimely end.
1) Lack of faithfulness.
Cheating leaves an ugly scar on a relationship that can sometimes never quite heal.
Few things devastate somebody like being cheated on, and while a person's reaction to finding out about it may vary among individuals the emotional hurt is universal.
Recovering from a breakup caused by cheating can be difficult, but it does happen...
more than you may think, actually.
2) Taking too tight a hold on the reins of the relationship.
More than just being bossy, commandeering your partner's life leaves him or her feeling trapped and constricted.
Some people see their own tendencies to do this and laugh it off like "being a control freak" is no big deal.
Truth is, it IS a big deal.
The claustrophobic feelings this induces can send a person into "panic mode" and cause them to just break and run from the source of the constriction: you.
3) Not supporting or providing for your partner's needs.
Both men and women each have their own particular needs from a relationship and although every person is unique you'll find that each gender tends to universally share some specific requirements to be happy.
Generally men need to feel needed and admired, and women need to feel desirable and valued.
A man without his woman's respect is going to feel as bad as a woman who doesn't feel like her man is interested in her or appreciates her.
Neither case usually results in the relationship lasting too long.
Whatever your situation, whatever it was that made your relationship go south and eventually break apart, it is still possible to fix the problems and redeem yourself.
Even if none of the above sound familiar, like they may have had some say in why your partner broke up with you, if you really think and discover what it was that ailed your relationship you can indeed bring it back together.