When He Is Pulling Away From You - Use These Proven Tips To Pull Your Ex Back Into Your Arms!
After a breakup, you may find that no matter what you do to get him back, your ex keeps pulling farther away from you. This causes you to panic and fear that you are losing the love of your life forever. As a result you try even harder to get him to talk things over, but he refuses and pulls farther away. The result will be that you will lose him forever if you keep badgering him this way. Take a deep breath and a step or two back and use these proven tips to pull your ex back into your arms.
When something is not working, it makes good sense to try something else. Perhaps something that is extremely different. For instance, since all of your pleading and telling your ex that you cannot live without him is not working, do the opposite. Start by ignoring him and showing your ex boyfriend that you can live without him very well. You will not lose him, but you will sure get his attention. The next step might be hard for you to do, but you should go out and have some fun with your girlfriends. When he hears of this, he will be surprised because he expected you to be at home, crying and waiting for him to call.
Then disappear from his radar. Go on a vacation or visit out of town relatives. Anything to make him wonder what happened to you. When he hears of you being out having a good time and then you suddenly disappear, he will think you may have found another guy. The fact that you have stopped trying to get him back will make him almost sure of it. Now your ex will not be able to believe what is happening. Suddenly, he will feel as if he was the one that was dumped.
Men can be very possessive, and when you make him feel that you might have another boyfriend, he will want you back. The man that was pulling away from you will now feel himself being pulled back to you. The same sense of loss and rejection that you felt will now be consuming your ex. Men are not good at handling rejection or loss. These feelings stir up the hunter gene in them and your ex boyfriend will feel challenged. By being challenged, he will start chasing whatever is challenging him and in his case that will be you. Soon you will feel your ex being pulled back into your arms.
When something is not working, it makes good sense to try something else. Perhaps something that is extremely different. For instance, since all of your pleading and telling your ex that you cannot live without him is not working, do the opposite. Start by ignoring him and showing your ex boyfriend that you can live without him very well. You will not lose him, but you will sure get his attention. The next step might be hard for you to do, but you should go out and have some fun with your girlfriends. When he hears of this, he will be surprised because he expected you to be at home, crying and waiting for him to call.
Then disappear from his radar. Go on a vacation or visit out of town relatives. Anything to make him wonder what happened to you. When he hears of you being out having a good time and then you suddenly disappear, he will think you may have found another guy. The fact that you have stopped trying to get him back will make him almost sure of it. Now your ex will not be able to believe what is happening. Suddenly, he will feel as if he was the one that was dumped.
Men can be very possessive, and when you make him feel that you might have another boyfriend, he will want you back. The man that was pulling away from you will now feel himself being pulled back to you. The same sense of loss and rejection that you felt will now be consuming your ex. Men are not good at handling rejection or loss. These feelings stir up the hunter gene in them and your ex boyfriend will feel challenged. By being challenged, he will start chasing whatever is challenging him and in his case that will be you. Soon you will feel your ex being pulled back into your arms.